Debacle Orienting

NOOOWWW i'm going to write about something rather actual, in Indonesia. A topic which is of course, as always, at least a decade behind the first world countries.

So, i'm gonna write about sexual orientations, specifically Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender, but more to the existence rather than the explanations. Well this orientation thing is always debatable since we couldn't yet answer the major question, which is "Is it nature or is it nurture?" and i did some discussions with the pros and cons, and yes i have my own untested assumptions regarding this topic.

Before we proceed, i'll tell you the most recent condition about LGBT, of individuals, of movements, and the most important thing, of majority's perspective, in Indonesia.

Whether or not sexual preferences deemed as each individual's liberty in a society is dealing with norms of a society's where one lives. And norms, of course are shaped within the society itself, they depend on the majority, and in some cases, vice versa. And since Indonesia has been using the democratic political system, then the country represents the majority. In shorter phrase, Indonesia is controlling its norms. Although we're living amid the tyranny of majority, that doesn't mean we have unlimited power, even over ourselves. Our country has Ideological and Constitutional foundations, the frontiers of our own imaginary freedom. And too bad for LGBT, our national ideology mentioned God in it, which means our norms are built above the foundation of beliefs. And worse, the constitutions only allowed a few religions to exist, in which all banned homosexual behaviors.

From religions' point of view, especially those are allowed here in Indonesia, no way, homosexuality has no chance.

So the LGBTs who live in Indonesia have no hopes or dreams to catch but a mere non-discrimination, unless we build a new foundations for our country, which will mean unless we build a new country and throw Indonesia away.

Well this is what's been happening around here lately. Most people are homophobic, they all hate LGBTs especially gay, bisexual men, and men who committed transgender. Lesbians, bisexual women, and transgender women get less hate than the other 3, and i need to mention some other explanations why could this happen.

So i have a transsexual woman friend. She told me about why men with different orientations are frequently more hated than women. The cause of this happening thing is our old subconscious mindset about men's superiority over women. For men who are gay, or bisexual, or transgender, in this mindset, are considered as having degradation from a higher hierarchy, while women who are doing the same thing will be considered as having state ascension. And now for all homophobics, i suggest you to reconsider to have the same doze of hate toward women as much as you have toward men, if you think that you're not that arrogant to admit that you're more superior than any women for men, and if you think that you're standing or deserve to stand on the same ground as any other men for women.

Go back to the topic. I don't know exactly why this LGBT topic suddenly arose out of nowhere in Indonesia and became a quite hot topic. There were suddenly seminars about it and of course the protests on its socialization. I have never heard this thing being such a great discussion in Indonesia before. I don't know if it's true or not, but i heard the LGBTs in Indonesia has started some kind of demanding actions to the government, i don't know an exact thing about it but i heard it from some people. So i think i'll skip this one since i don't know it for certain.

Well i guess that's more or less the precise condition of LGBT in Indonesia. There are pros and cons, but you'll find more cons since a lot of people in here are seeing the world beneath the shade of dogmas.

Now let's move to my opinion about LGBT.

I agreed with myself that being gay is not an option. Everyone was born with each sexual orientations. It's nature, and it's impossible to be nurtured.

Those who are cons must be asking why.

Before i answer why, to those who are cons, let me ask you a simple question. Have you ever tried to find out where does sexual orientation come from if you believe that the environment is playing the major decisive role on deciding sexual orientation?

Well, i'll say that people who believe that being gay is an option never realized how too dogmatic they have been. They refused sexual orientation was born with everyone, because they believe that God isn't that mean. The dogmatic people won't ever believe that being gay is genetic, since they think that it's impossible for God to make a flaw. They think God won't ever create a human who's destined to later live in hell. They believe that God isn't just playing with human and its destiny.

So, it's our option to be dogmatic or not, but it's also our option to be stupid enough or not.

If you're still refusing that it's nature, here's my opinion about this.

So everyone of us was born from a pair of heterosexual parents right? Except Jesus Christ of course you may think that way if you want to. Of course everyone was born from heterosexual parents since it's impossible for gay parents to be pregnant, especially the parents with a pair of penises. So that answer is inevitably a fact.

Now, have you ever met a parent who wants their children to be gay?
A parent who shoves someone's dick to their son's mouth?
Or to the ass?

Doesn't make any sense right?

Well, the environment has no influence in deciding sexual orientation but to ignite the real sexual orientation identity. Okay if you still think that "The gay son might be living in the middle of gay neighborhood." or "The gay parents might educate their adopted kid(s) to be gay as well." It's still impossible for someone to choose to be gay, because if you still think that stupid, then you might want to consider on stop using your brain.



WHERE DOES GAY ORIENTATION COME FROM IF IT'S NURTURE HAH? ANSWER THAT.



I've tried to build some scenarios in my head if LGBT is nurture.

HISTORY OF GAY
One day, everyone was straight. Then a dude decided to eat a cock. The dude whose dick got eaten felt good. They fell in love. Then they build an underground school which taught the students about gay manifesto. The LGBTs should thank these 2 dudes for their experiment. The End.

I think i don't need to tell any more scenarios about a dude who accidentally blow his friend's dick, or a dude got itch in the butthole then asked a dude next to him while they both hanged and handcuffed naked, aight?

As i said before, i have discussed about LGBT with pros and cons. The cons i met barely had any solid reason why they're against it but from religion. From the religions' side, of course LGBT is wrong, no none can doubt that. I usually would immediately leave the table if someone is that faithful and brought up their faith into anything like discussion and i'll be like "this stupid doesn't worth the time" or just try to evade or end the topic and drive it into talking shit if i think it'll be too rude to leave. And in a discussion against a con, a dude thrown an excuse to be against LGBT from medical basis. Well dude, let me tell you something you might never thought about.

By standing against it with an excuse from medical basis, haven't you realized that you're just indirectly supporting their existence? That you just tear off your own argument?

Because if i were you, a homophobic, i will completely support any LGBT movement, i will break a leg, spill my blood, drown in my sweat to support for gay to be legal.

Why? Because the people i hate, the gays, might extinct faster.

And that will help our dire problem of world's overpopulation. More effective than condoms and pills.

So i guess, in any way, i'm not against LGBT since i can't see any wrong things from it.

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